Etiquette 101 – The Avant Life

A natural reflection of our culture, etiquette evolves. It changes alongside our societies, and within professional circles to form our unwritten rules of agreeable and accepted behavior. It becomes a standardization of protocol and the lens used to view the actions of others. Yet the essence of etiquette is timeless and does not change in its' philosophy. It has and always will be a commitment to convey respect, consideration, and honesty onto others. This philosophy is inherent in us, and the very foundations upon which our societies are built. It's one based in survival and securing the basic human needs of decency and kindness. Respect involves acknowledging the value of others. It is reflected in our actions, appearance, and the language we use. To give our full attention and practice the art of active listening is a powerful tool in improving the quality of our relationships and how we view the world. To be respectful is to be mindful of others’ backgrounds, cultures, and traditions. It is to be on time, to pay tribute to place and property. Consideration means having compassion and empathy for others. It is being inclusive and seeking to understand circumstances outside of your own. It's being praiseful, showing gratitude, and making others feel welcomed. It's saying 'please', 'thank you', and 'excuse me'. It's offering help when possible, and forgiving when you can, realizing that nobody is perfect. To have consideration is to cognitively and emotionally understand that other viewpoints exist and matter. Honesty is being truthful and sincere in our actions. It is to recognize and acknowledge truth, good and bad. Honesty strengthens our character as well as our relationships with others. It's what makes us reliable, and can make or break a reputation. Honesty is also the integrity to not lie, cheat, or take unfair advantage when it benefits you. To be honest is to trust and be accountable for our words and actions. Honesty eases mind. It is a reflection of authentic self, inciting our self-expression and ability to love.

Foundations of Etiquette–

Fundamental's of Etiquette- Respect, Consideration, and Honesty. Etiquette today is often mistaken as onerous protocol for acceptable social behavior and manners. In practice etiquette is simply a commitment to convey respect, consideration, and honesty. This philosophy is timeless and can be conveyed in different forms. Essentially… Respect involves acknowledging the value of others. This is reflected in your actions, appearance, and the language you use. Giving your full attention and practicing the art of active listening is a powerful tool in improving the quality of our relationships and how we view the world. To be respectful is to be mindful of others’ backgrounds, cultures, and traditions. It is to be on time, to pay tribute to place and property. It is the golden rule. Consideration means having compassion and empathy for others. It is being inclusive and ‘trying’ to understanding the circumstances outside of your own. It’s being praiseful and showing gratitude for ‘something received’. It’s saying please, thank you, and excuse me. It’s offering help whenever you can. To have consideration is to cognitively and emotionally understand that other viewpoints exist. It makes the world a better place. Honesty is being truthful and sincere in your actions. Being honest relates first to oneself and can be difficult to commit to, but to be able recognize and acknowledge the truth is strengthening of one’s character. Having the integrity to not lie or cheat to get ahead means holding true to your values. Take accountability for your words and actions. Being honest eases the mind. It makes you reliable and is the basis of good reputations and relationships. Alex Latorre, Etiquette Coach

A natural reflection of our culture, etiquette evolves. It changes alongside our societies, and within professional circles to form our unwritten rules of agreeable and accepted behavior. It becomes a standardization of protocol and the lens used to view the actions of others. Yet the essence of etiquette is timeless and does not change in its’ philosophy. It has and always will be a commitment to convey respect, consideration, and honesty onto others.

This philosophy is inherent in us, and the very foundations upon which our societies are built. It’s one based in survival and securing the basic human needs of decency and kindness.

Respect involves acknowledging the value of others. It is reflected in our actions, appearance, and the language we use. To give our full attention and practice the art of active listening is a powerful tool in improving the quality of our relationships and how we view the world. To be respectful is to be mindful of others’ backgrounds, cultures, and traditions. It is to be on time, to pay tribute to place and property.

Consideration means having compassion and empathy for others. It is being inclusive and seeking to understand circumstances outside of your own. It’s being praiseful, showing gratitude, and making others feel welcomed. It’s saying ‘please’, ‘thank you’, and ‘excuse me’. It’s offering help when possible, and forgiving when you can, realizing that nobody is perfect. To have consideration is to cognitively and emotionally understand that other viewpoints exist and matter.

Honesty is being truthful and sincere in our actions. It is to recognize and acknowledge truth, good and bad. Honesty strengthens our character as well as our relationships with others. It’s what makes us reliable, and can make or break a reputation. Honesty is also the integrity to not lie, cheat, or take unfair advantage when it benefits you. To be honest is to trust and be accountable for our words and actions. Honesty eases mind. It is a reflection of authentic self, inciting our self-expression and ability to love.